Risposami!

The couple is a living body: it is the place of a special relationship in which two different identities experience the joy of deep intimacy while remaining separate. Being oneself and at the same time being “us” requires flexibility and the ability to adapt; the risk is that the relationship will cease to respond to the vital needs of one or the other, and even serious situations of incomprehension and tiredness may arise. A major crisis always marks the end of a couple\’s way of being in a relationship; in order to find the road to a new fullness, it is then necessary to decide to reinitiate the relationship on new bases, new foundations. This is why it is necessary to think in terms of a second marriage: a renewed pact with the same person, to whom we can once again give love and trust. We need to try to understand our history differently, without settling for what we already think we know. We will arrive at the understanding of what unites us so uniquely, even with the limitations anddefects that make us suffer. The outcome of a true \’second marriage\’ with the same person is a relationship that is not only stronger, but also renewed: a relationship that is not only more solid, but also renewed: a relationship that is a true, definitive alliance.